Fundraising

Since August I have been working as a fundraiser for Empowerment International, a non-profit in Granada, Nicaragua that helps children in two impoverished communities succeed in school.  It is a wonderful organization doing good work.  I will be travelling to the communities in 2 weeks time and will be posting lots.

Here is something interesting that I just found on CharityNavigator.org  under the category 10 Charities Overpaying their For-Profit Funddraisers.  It’s incredible 90% payment to fundraisers with 7.5% program expenses.  Shameless!

Rank Charity Program Expenses Professional Fundraising Fees
1 Disabled Police Officers Counseling Center 7.5% 90.9%
2 Cancer Survivors’ Fund 6.9% 90.2%
3 Firefighters Charitable Foundation 10.2% 84.4%
4 Operation Lookout 11.4% 82.2%
5 Wishing Well Foundation USA 8.5% 80.9%
6 Children’s Charity Fund, Inc. 8.1% 77.9%
7 United States Deputy Sheriff’s Association 14.8% 69.4%
8 Dakota Indian Foundation 19.9% 60.2%
9 National Veterans Services Fund, Inc. 17.4% 55.9%
10 Police Athletic League of New Jersey 39.5% 48.8%

Kid Update

I’ve been remiss about posting lately.  Busy with life — and the small stuff doesn’t seem so noteworthy.   But it may be interesting for them in the future and definitely for me.  It’s crazy to look back on what I’ve written and remember things that they never do anymore.

Here’s some of the local flavor from my house:

Nadya calls Rice Crispy treats “Raspberry Christmas Treats.”  Sometimes I don’t understand what she is saying in English and I need to her to tell me in Russian.  She gets mad and yells it by the time I’ve asked her 4x.  The doctor, who will take out her tonsils/adenoids on March 9, says that her nasal speaking should improve.

She is a big fan of princesses, ballerinas and, gulp, Barbie.  She doesn’t have a Barbie doll but does have a   Barbie music machine (think a tiny, pink, sparkly rappers turntable) and a Barbie guitar.  She loves school, where her best friend is Yasmina.  She’s fearless in the water, though she can’t swim yet.  She’s an easy-going sweet kid…most of the time.

Nikolai is 100% goofball lately. Laughs hysterically at toilet-related humor or anything naughty.  Cannot sit still for a second at home, but is doing great at school — implying that he does in fact sit.  He is reading!  I find him reading alone sometimes which seems like a good sign.  He likes math and is spontaneously adding and subtracting throughout the day.

He’s is not showing an real aptitude for soccer but thinks that he is pretty good.  Sometimes he fights me on going but I remind him he’ll need to play soccer in Nicaragua and other places that we will live.  He’s on board with that.  He fancies himself an adventurer so learning soccer is a small price to pay.

I love watching their personalities develop — when I actually take the time to watch.  They are such good kids but they annoy me  quite a bit (“For the 10th time put your underpants on!” “Didn’t I tell you that would spill!” “Grab your bag, we’re gonna be late now”…) so sometimes I don’t appreciate how great they are.

New Year’s Resolution: Appreciate what I’ve got.  Especially these two characters.

My Prenatal Yoga Pregnancy Notes

I promised these notes, as summary of info from my prenatal trainings and other research, to a mom-to-be.  I figured other expecting moms might also be interested.

Let me clearly state that I am no expert.  Women should follow their doctor’s/midwives’ advice.  And practice carefully, listening always to their bodies.

Informed by what I learned in my Dancing Through Pregnancy  course, I believe that moms should compliment yoga with sensible aerobic activity.   Be sure to hydrate : drink and extra 1/2 gallon of water for ever hour you exercise.  And eat extra protein:  70-90g for each hour of exercise.

Why Exercise  During Pregnancy? 1. Promote your and your baby’s health 2.  Skills for labor (work with body, try poses, relaxation exercises) 3. Quicker recovery (fewer C-sections/interventions among moms who exercise)

OK here’s a practice that I do with my prenatal clients (BTW I offer private Prenatal Yoga classes for $40 at The Fitness Haven):

Supta Badah Konasana

Centering with the breath.  Head rolls, body rolls.

Hands to prayer at heart center, inhale arms up, exhale down saying “AHHH” to heart center. This opens jaw and is good practice for relaxing the body in labor.

Hiss/Compress as developed by Dancing Through Pregnancy see here for details.

Shoulder blade squeeze.

Open seated twist.

Cat-Cow with many variations.  Great for low back pain.

Gate pose.

Lunge (high and knee on floor) with hands inside.  Stretch groin.

Squat. Strengthen glutes.

Chair (use a block). Strengthen glutes, legs, back.

Modified Squat. Standing, knees bent, hands on thighs, look over left shoulder, look over right shoulder.

Shoulder openers: with strap, Eagle arms, etc…

Triangle.

Warrior.

Extended side angle.

Tree.  Use a wall if you feel instable.  Great for balance.

Dog on Wall.  Great for laboring as well — double hip squeeze is very effective in this position. Hamstrings, low back stretch.

Dancing Shiva on the wall.  Shoulders back opener.

Seated Kegels. Strengthen the pelvic floor.

Wide leg seated on a blanket.  Hamstring opener.

Wrist and ankle rolls for swelling.

Exercise ball practice for labor. See here.

Gomulkasana or Pigeon for hip opening.

Side Lying for relaxation. Use a guided relaxation. Imagery.

December

Happy December.  We’ve had such a warm, wonderful month.  It started to get cold only this past weekend.  The kids are loving the run up to Christmas.  My shopping is nearly done and the cards are being sent.  I feel calm and happy despite the cold and the spending on gifts.  Happy Holidays to all!

Looking for a new hotel? newsleeps.com

I am the pickiest person when it comes to staying in hotels. I have dragged my husband Max through endless hotels — esp in Asia — only to say ‘no thank you.’
This coming weekend Max is taking me away for my birthday. Our fav VT hotel (The Castle Inn and Spa) has literally tripled in price since our last visit.

So, in my quest for a clean, new hotel I found this site: www.newsleeps.com. Brilliant! Check it out!

Providence Children’s Museum

We are enjoying the Providence Children’s Museum today. Six year old Nikolai and 3 year old Nadya are having a blast in the water room, the ship and the grocery store. We’ve been here for more than 2 hours with no whining. Parking is free. Bring a lunch and eat it in the designated room. There was a store hour and some winter crafts too. Great place and FREE with my Yale Peabody (New Haven, CT) membership.

**BTW that membership is the best value at $65–gets you into West Hartford, Boston and Providens Children’s Museums!

International Day!

Nikolai is dressed in traditional Russian garb for International Day at school.  Nadya is a Halloween part-princess.  Such a wonderful International Day show at Nikolai’s school.  I welled up as the kindergarteners paraded in carrying the flags of the world and singing in their sweet high-pitched voices.  I love our diverse neighborhood!

Christmas Card Photo Shoot Take 1

So I pulled out Nadya’s Christmas dress from last year, bought Kolya a holiday-ish shirt and we hit New Haven Harbor for a photo shoot.  PS I BLEW DRY Nadya’s hair.

Surprisingly, Kolya the biggest goof when the camera comes out, was in good form. Nadya not so much.   So very annoying trying to get a good shot of them both.  Here’s a few of the hundred (seriously) that we took.

Apple Picking Field Trip and 1st Lost Tooth

What a day!  Cool apple picking weather. 52 excited kids and 20 parents.  A long wagon ride, donuts, and a lost tooth.  Nikolai’s first tooth popped out after biting into an apple.  To his credit he waited to tell me until the farmer finished his speech about rules of behavior at the orchard.

Marketing Your Yoga Class: Runners

As I was researching yoga benefits for my upcoming workshop (Oct 22, Yoga for Moms at EcoYoga), I thought about how we all need balance in exercise: aerobic, strength, and flexibility.  Many of us do just one thing: running, tennis, Zumba, etc…   I have heard many time “Oh I tried yoga once, it’s not enough of a workout for me.”  That’s actually right — the Hatha Yoga I teach should not be the only exercise a person does.**  My students should get aerobic activity (walking, biking, etc…) in too.  My classes are about building strength and flexibility.

Thinking more about this, and seeing runners and serious bikers all around me in my East Rock, New Haven neighborhood, I realized: “Hey this is a group that I can market to.”

I’ve found these articles from Runner’s World and Yoga Journal that back me up.  So this week’s flier are going to trumpet the restorative and flexibility-building benefits of yoga for runners.  I’ll post with the results of this niche marketing…

**Vinyasa and Power teachers may feel differently.